Nirvanah fallacy means to dismiss realistic options rather than accept practical, available solutions. This is a HUGE fallacy with many people battling various factions of being Forever Alone. I was quite shocked when I started looking into these communities, at the very idealized expectations young(ish) people have for their first sexual experience generally. I don’t want to drag down the entire tone of this writing now, but when I was a youngster I would have been absolutely thrilled for any one deemed a human female to have touched me with a bargepole.
But joking apart, isolated people often ruminate, spend too much time alone, sometimes with escapist media or pornography and maladaptive daydreams. They often construct repeating daydreams of absolutely perfect relationships with absolutely perfect people, and especially sexually. As an ex-sex addict I can assure you it’s all BS. The full porn experience will always disappoint people not high on narcotics.
There’s a big stigma in these communities about “lowering standards”, i.e. going with a less than perfect partner, which is also just BS as far as I’m concerned, because there’s “not lowering standards” and there’s “hankering after something that doesn’t exist.” Often “lowering standards” is simply “becoming realistic”.
ACCEPT THE SOLUTION BEFORE YOU
WAKE UP